Tuesday, March 25, 2014
Friday, February 7, 2014
So imagine this, your lying in bed with your partner watching a great movie with some light conversation. You’re relaxed, comfortable and enjoying the moment. Then all of sudden, your partner tries to make a hard move by grabbing on your breast and entering the vagina without warning. Your sitting there thinking (OMG!! what the &$%@?).
Or, that dreadful moment when you’re during the dishes and he come slaps you on the rear end and tells you to bend over. Now you’re starting to think, (what is this dude smoking?).
There are a few reasons why your partner just totally ruined the night with these hard moves. Don’t get me wrong, a quickie here and there works sometimes, but hard moves like that just don’t cut it often. Sex can be a beautiful thing, but if you’re continuously doing the same ole tricks, sex can become just another boring job and who wants to be a part of that mess.
So what is foreplay?
Foreplay is basically playing before hand, preparing the mind and body for sex; it’s just like warming up before exercising. I think we can all agree that most women don’t like the idea of just jumping in bed and heading straight for it, as well as some men may also need a little extra boosting. Some men responds sexually like a stove, you turn it on and it’s immediately hot, but women sexual response is more like the oven, turn it on and it takes a few minutes to warm up. Foreplay does not have to be all sexual. This also involves laughing, flirting, holding hands, exposing your sensitive side, being compassionate, making your partner feel relaxed and comfortable. Foreplay is making your partner want you, its everything leading up to that moment.
Why is foreplay so important?
Couples who engage in foreplay usually have more pleasurable sex and stronger orgasms. Lack of sexual gratification can lead to frustration, resentment, affairs and ultimately breaking up. The process of a woman’s arousal takes longer than a man. So preparing for intercourse increases the desires, gives a woman time for complete vagina lubrication and prolongs that stimulating feeling. Foreplay allows you to build up anticipation and passion for one another.
So don’t always head for the same ole daily routine. Play around with it and take time throughout the day to learn what turns your partner on. We are always searching for that sexual thrill. The excitement comes from not knowing what to expect.
Monday, January 27, 2014
Talk about lifestyle change! Its been a whole year now and going natural was probably one of the best decisions I've ever made. Such a dramatic difference but an experience I wouldn't change. My hair as always been fairly long or lets just say shoulder length. So to go from straight long relaxed hair to short (after the BIG CHOP) hair was an emotional ride of my life. I'm still getting used to all the many short natural hair styles, but I so love my hair now, its super thick and healthier than ever!
Here is how I made the transition of my life. Hope you all enjoy this.
Here is how I made the transition of my life. Hope you all enjoy this.
Wednesday, January 22, 2014
Who doesn't like to be cozy, warm and still look fabulous?
Anna Diamond Jacquard Cardigan $79.50 Banana Republic
Metallic Black Stitched Cardigan $69.00 Ann Taylor
Asymmetrical Cardigan $345 Ralph Lauren
Fluffy Cardigan $59.95 H&M
Maxi Cardigan $40 Forever 21
Aeo Ribbed Cardigan $49 American Eagle
Two Toned Cashmere Cardigan $127 Neiman Marcus
Tory Burch Simone Merino Cardigan $225 Nordstrom
Color-block Stripe Drape Cardigan $60 Macy's
Ecote Mix Intarsia Open-Front Cardigan $49 UrbanOutfitters
Monday, January 20, 2014
Hello loves and Happy Monday!
So I know most of us are stuck in our regular workout routine then wonder why we are not seeing any more results. Well, I have recently received a serious reality check when VIDA Fitness contacted me to try out their new classes. My first thought was ok I can do this, and it should be super easy because I’m constantly working out all the time. This should be a piece of cake. Boy was I wrong!
VIDA Fitness Director and Certified Personal Trainer Alexx Zamudio, was my instructor, which introduced two new classes to the health & fitness center.
VIDA M.I.T (Maximum Interval Training), A 45 minute high intensity full body workout focusing on cardio, strength and toning, balance and flexibility.
VIDA Assets, The 45 minute ultimate lower body workout focusing on glutes, legs and abdominal muscles.
During the classes I found it very hard to keep up. It was very intense and I was out of breath. I couldn’t wait for the 2 minute break after each set. I went through my water bottle in 10 minutes. Once class was over I had the chance to tour the facility and sit and talk with the instructor about my new experience.
I realized even though I have reached my weight goal and exercise regularly, unfortunately my body has adapted to the normal everyday routine, which is true because I can now do 50 squats and not feel a thing the next day. The fitness class I took kept me sore for 2 days and counting. I literally feel like a hospital patient who’s been hit by a truck. I call it THE GOOD PAIN…
VIDA classes are designed to continually shock the body with difficult routines (especially for beginner) that effectively forces the body into new ways to grow.
The facility is amazing and the class definitely changed my workout life. Therefor I will be incorporating more new and challenging workouts in my original exercise routines.
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Saturday, January 11, 2014
Hello and Happy Saturday!
So, if your dresser have looked anything like mines in the past (hot mess) then it is definitely time for a little organization therapy. I have been struggling for a long time trying to find simple ways to organize my dresser top and keep it DE cluttered. It became so cluttered with cosmetic products, jewelry, mail, books, receipts, pictures, cd’s, dvd’s, clothes, I mean you name it and it was on my dressers.
Once I started the organization process awhile back, life has become so much easier and I feel great about the progress I've made and how I have maintained it.
Your bedroom is a place where visitors usually don’t go, so it becomes a super comfort spot. It’s so easy to lose control of all the clutter. Here are some efficient tips that have helped me along the way. Take breaks as you go through the steps; you don’t want to overwhelm yourself.
Remove everything from your dresser top. It’s best to place everything in boxes or containers to sort through later, and also to avoid a huge mess in your room. Organize as the items are being put into your boxes. All the paper clutter in one box, clothes in another, cosmetics products in separate container. This step will save you time later when your getting ready to go threw them and put them the items in the proper places.
Once everything is cleared off, clean and dust the space with the appropriate cleaners. Now you have a clean dresser top and you can decorate it with a picture or book or two, candles, or your favorite perfumes.
I use a container I brought from Target to store other items I don't want just laying around. Everything does not need to be on the dresser, so don’t over clutter. If you don’t use it regularly then store it in containers or in the closet. If you don't use it at all then throw it away.
Saturday, January 4, 2014
Hello and Happy New Years to all!!!
So, today it’s all about those lips. I mean what girl doesn't like glosses and lip balms? Every girl needs these, but the right ones. I wanted to share some interesting moisturizers for those of us who tend to have those dry irritating chap lips that even crack sometimes especially during the cold season. Here I have put together a couple of my favs and not so favs lip balms.Blistex Daily Conditioning Treatment - Under $5
I use Blistex products a lot. They never seem to let me down, but this one is by far my most favorite. I use this all the time and even have a couple of these suckers laying around. I really enjoy the feeling it gives. Its a great smooth lip moisturizer with Aloe, Cocoa Butter & Vitamin E; it also provides SPF 20 protection. So if your really looking for a moisturizer balm, I would definitely recommended this little guy.
Softlip Intense Moisture - Under $5
Who can go wrong with soft lips? I really like these hydrating balms, Berry, Citrus and Double Mint, really smooth when applying. All three flavors have shea butter and provide SPF protection, but only the Citrus balm has Vitamins C & E enriched formulas.
Mac Lip Conditioner Hydratant $15
MAC has really great products, but unfortunately I’m not too sure if I will purchase this one again. It does moisturize nicely and gives off a glossy sheen which I do like. Although this contains a lot of great ingredients like shea butter, almond oil, wheat germ & avocado extract and vitamins, its does not provide SPF protection. This balm is a bit pricey but I’m sure I can find cheaper balms that contain everything I’m looking for in one tube.
Clinque Super-balm Lip Treatment $14
Ok! This is a bit pricey for such a small tube. So sad but so true. It is good for distressed lips and is very hydrating. The balm gives your lips a soft smooth feel which we all can really appreciate. The product doesn't mention anything about sunscreen protection so I'm assuming it doesn't contain it. BUMMER!! One of the main ingredients is petroleum so before I purchase this again, I'll just swing pass the local drug store and pick up a jar of Vaseline.